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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
A Pastoral Letter in Observance of Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Adopted by the Holy Synod of the Reformed Catholic Church,
October 4th, 2025
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
As leaders of the Reformed Catholic Church, we feel compelled to address the grave issue of domestic
violence, which affects countless individuals and families within our communities. Domestic violence
is a profound violation of human dignity and a grave sin against the sanctity of life and the love that
God intends for all relationships.
Domestic violence encompasses a range of abusive behaviors used to exert power and control over
another person. This includes:
· Physical Abuse: Any act of physical violence, including hitting, slapping, pushing, and strangulation.
Physical abuse often leaves visible marks, but even when it does not, the trauma inflicted can be deep
and long-lasting.
· Mental Abuse: Psychological tactics that undermine an individual's sense of self-worth, such as
constant criticism, humiliation, and manipulation. Mental abuse can be insidious, eroding a person's
confidence and sense of reality over time.
· Sexual Abuse: Any non-consensual sexual contact or behavior, including marital rape and sexual
coercion. Sexual abuse is a profound violation of a person's autonomy and bodily integrity.
The impact of domestic violence extends far beyond the immediate physical and emotional harm
inflicted on victims. It disrupts families, affects children, and undermines the fabric of our
communities. Children who witness domestic violence are at risk of developing emotional and
behavioral problems, and the cycle of abuse can perpetuate across generations.
A Scriptural Response
In the Gospel of John (John 4:1–26), Jesus meets a Samaritan woman at the well, a woman burdened
by broken relationships and social stigma. He does not condemn her but offers her living water,
affirming her dignity and inviting her into healing and truth.
In Luke 10:25–37, Jesus tells the parable of the Good Samaritan, who stops to care for a man beaten
and left for dead. Unlike the religious leaders who pass by, the Samaritan binds the man’s wounds and
ensures his safety. This is the model for our response to domestic violence: not avoidance, but active
compassion and intervention.
In John 8:1–11, when a woman caught in adultery is dragged before Jesus, he refuses to participate in
her public shaming. Instead, he challenges the crowd: “Let anyone among you who is without sin be
the first to throw a stone.” Jesus protects her from violence and restores her dignity. His words,
“Neither do I condemn you,” are a call to mercy, justice, and transformation.
We also hear the call of wisdom in Proverbs 31:8–9:
“Speak out for those who cannot speak, for the rights of all the destitute. Speak out, judge righteously,
defend the rights of the poor and needy.” This is our mandate, to be a voice for those silenced by fear
and trauma, and to defend the dignity of every person.
And we remember the mission of Christ in Luke 4:18–19:
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has
sent me to proclaim release to the captives... to let the oppressed go free.” Domestic violence survivors
are among the oppressed whom Christ came to liberate. The Church must be a place of refuge, healing,
and justice.
Call to Action
In light of the pervasive and destructive nature of domestic violence, we urge local and state
governments—and truly everyone—to undertake a comprehensive restructuring of the support system
for victims. This restructuring should aim to provide a coordinated, fully funded multi-agency approach
where victims can access all necessary services under one roof. This includes:
1. Legal Assistance: Providing victims with access to legal advice and representation to help them
navigate the complexities of the legal system and obtain protection orders.
2. Medical Care: Ensuring that victims receive prompt and compassionate medical attention for their
physical injuries and ongoing health needs.
3. Psychological Support: Offering counseling and mental health services to help victims heal from
the trauma of abuse and rebuild their lives.
4. Safe Housing: Providing secure and confidential housing options for victims who need to escape
their abusers and start anew.
Our Commitment
As a Church, we commit to playing an active role in addressing domestic violence within our
communities. Our commitment includes:
1. Raising Awareness: We will educate our congregations about the signs and consequences of
domestic violence. Through sermons, workshops, and educational materials, we will foster a deeper
understanding of this issue and encourage a culture of zero tolerance for abuse.
2. Providing Support: We will offer pastoral care to victims of domestic violence, providing them
with spiritual guidance and emotional support. Additionally, we will connect victims with professional
resources, including counseling services and support groups.
3. Advocating for Change: We will work with community leaders, policymakers, and other
organizations to advocate for a more effective support system for victims. This includes lobbying for
legislative changes, supporting funding for domestic violence programs, and promoting collaboration
among agencies.
Compassion and Justice
We call upon all members of our Church and society to stand in solidarity with those who suffer from
domestic violence. Let us offer them the love, support, and resources they need to find safety and
healing. It is our collective responsibility to create an environment where victims feel safe to come
forward and seek help without fear of judgment or retribution.
Domestic violence is a grave injustice that we must confront with compassion, determination, and a
commitment to justice. By working together, we can create a society where every individual is treated
with dignity and respect, and where the sanctity of life and love is upheld.
Let us pray for the strength and wisdom to support those affected by domestic violence and to work
tirelessly towards a future free from abuse.
Sincerely in Christ,
The Bishops, Clergy and Board of Directors of the Reformed Catholic Church
The City Beautiful Synod 2025 Reformed Catholic Church
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